When it comes to sex, people expect to have fun and happy results- reach an orgasm. An orgasm is what usually happens when you reach the peak of sexual arousal. It makes you feel good and your body will react with a very intense, pleasurable feeling in your genitals.
Different people have different bodies, and different bodies will react to different orgasm. Some feel intense and like to scream it out loud, some are calm and peaceful, some are in between. It all depends on how sexually excited you are and how enjoyable this sex experience is.
More importantly, women on average are having fewer orgasms than men, it’s very common that women haven’t had experienced an orgasm during sexual activity. And it doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy it. If you happen to have difficulty reaching an orgasm, here are 5 tips to help you in having a better orgasm or first orgasm in your life.
Let’s dive in.
Watch a Nice Porn Movie
Some couples find that watching porn movies together improves their sex lives. It was an easy way to spice their sex life and women will get wetter and turn on. Moreover, it may even help sexual arousal while watching the porn, couples viewing the pornstar acting in different sex positions will give them ideas to add to their sexual activity.
Women are emotional creatures, they care more about the connection, hugging, and emotion bands. Watching nice porn will open the conversation, people always feel shy and shame to talk about sex, pornography may start a conversation that couples are eager to have and offer the chance to share their fantasies. Women will feel more needed in this process and more dedicated to having the pleasure of new ways from the scene.
Not only to allow knowing your partner body more by watching porn movies but also knows what can arouse and attract your partner from the scene. It can lead to better sex orgasm with the techniques you learn from the screen and make you both satisfied.
Try Different Position
You could definitely benefit from switching up different sex positions. Stick to one single position will make sex become a boring routine. At first, you may feel pain when you try something new, but it’s necessary to explore new sex pleasure, and fun with your partner to keep the fire up.
There are so many possibilities out there that your imagination might not have even thought up yet. The cowgirl for me is the best way to get a nice orgasm, I can control the rhythm and decide how I want to reach orgasm. It always hit the right spots and stimulates my sensitive areas. If my partner can sit straight up and hug me that makes me feel desired and more intimate.
Using a Right Sex Toy
Thank god, more and more people are becoming more open when discussing sex. We can talk about dick size, vagina smell, etc. And the sex toy is no more a taboo topic, it is a great addition for spice up in your bedroom, sex toy is good and magical that no one should feel ashamed to buy it. The research found that couples who used the sex toy are more satisfied than those who don’t use it at all. I think that 80% of adults have used the sex toy to aid in their sexual pleasures, and with the right sex toy, reaching a great orgasm is easy and fast alone or with a partner.
Obviously, men can cum easily and women have less cum than men, but sex toys can change that. Tease her clit with a vibrator or use a fleshlight in foreplay will make her wetter and bring back the spark in a relationship. If you are about to cum, you can switch your dick with the vibrator and let your partner still have fun until both of you reach the orgasm together.
Play With Sex Doll
Sex doll has become the trending sex toy since the lockdown began. People who own a lifelike sex doll not only treats it as a sex partner but also as companionship. After being with the same partner for a long time, the sexual relationship usually tends to fade. Bring a sex doll to your bedroom and play it with your partner will take you to next level of sex orgasm. Couples also find that if they like a threesome, bring a sex doll with a human shape would be much better than bringing the real one, it’s a great way to explore the fun with other people without cheating their partners.
Sex dolls allow you to explore your body in ways you’ve never imagined before. No matter you desire a non-stop ride, he is always there for you with his hard dick. With a real man, you need to care about his feeling and please him during the process. But sex doll is a great way to enjoy sex pleasure alone, he won’t talk to you, argue with you, say no to you, the only job for him is to make you feel happy.
Ask For More Foreplay
The report showed that only 6% of the 8,000 women surveyed reached orgasm through penile-vaginal intercourse. For women, foreplay gives them time to ‘warm’ up and gets them in the mood. It also allows them to reach orgasm more quickly.
Orgasms are good for us. Not because they take us to heaven but help us release stress. Most women need to have the right kind of clitoral stimulation to reach climax. And foreplay gives you chance to know more about your partner’s body, what’s is arousing her, what makes her scream out. More foreplay involved, more desire she wants. Touching, kissing and mouth job are the best foreplay tips to stimulate the sensation of your partner’s body. If you have done right, both of you will be satisfied.
Final Word
Whatever you name it, coming, climaxing, or finishing. Orgasm is considered the peak of sexual experience. However, it’s not easy for everyone to reach, and I can say it’s difficult to achieve it. While women might not have orgasms as effortlessly as men, but with the help of your partner of a sex toy, and the above tips, you can have your first orgasm.
